Why Do Many Filipina Girls Marry Foreigners?

November 16, 2009 by Anita  
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Peter Finch asked:


A Filipina in her early twenties, clad in a tight-fitting pair of jeans, a body-hugging shirt walks on a busy street in the Philippines. She attracts attention not only because of her looks but because she is holding hands with a foreigner who is old enough to be her grandfather.

Two blocks away, a woman in her late forties is hanging on to the arm of a 65-year old foreigner. Both women will be marrying their boyfriends soon and each had her own reasons. Every year more Filipina ladies are leaving the country each year to marry a foreigner. Here are some of the common reasons for these marriages:

The search for greener pastures.

It is undeniable that a big percentage of the Filipina girls who marry foreigners look at their husbands as a “visa” for them to go find better opportunities abroad. Filipina ladies have a mission to support their family as soon as they are able to, like help send younger siblings to school or take over the responsibility as the head of the family.

Travel and adventure

A foreigner husband is a ticket to exciting worlds beyond the desolate place she may have grown up in. She looks at him as the realization of her childhood dreams of traveling to far places.

Status elevation

As ironic as it seems, majority of the Filipino women prefers American love stories over Philippine films and they get all dreamy eyed and instantly fall in love when they see a caucasian man.

Age factor

While a woman in her late thirties is considered in the prime of life in other countries, it is not the case for a Filipina because when she is past 30 and is still unmarried, eyebrows will start to rise and her chances of getting married starts to get slim and meeting a foreigner for a prospective husband online is one of her few choices. Usually, a Filipina marries in her late teens or early 20s and should already have a child in college by the time she is 40 years old.

Failed marriages

Failure in her marriage could also push Filipina ladies to look to foreigners for a second chance. Some of these Filipina ladies are unwed mothers, while others are victims of abusive husbands, forced to do menial jobs for a meager pay just to support her children.

Average looks

An average looking Filipina (meaning not the beauty queen material) may feel she does not have to go to lengths and pay huge amounts to augment her physical features to attract a foreign husband-to-be.

True Love

You may find it hard to believe this but despite the perception that the Filipina is taking a risk marrying a person with a different set of values with a different cultural background, love could be the reason why she will marry a foreigner.



Dating Filipina Cebuanas From Cebu Philippines

August 31, 2009 by Anita  
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Filipina Kisses asked:


Do you want to date a Filipina Cebuana from Cebu, Philippines? If your Filipina girl lives in Cebu Island, one of the Visayas Islands, then your Filipina woman is a Cebuana.

“Cebuanas” is a term used for Filipina girls and Filipina women who grew up and recognize Cebu as their province. While “Bisaya” is a general term used for people living in most of the other Visayas islands and in Mindanao Island.

Cebu is one of the provinces of the Philippines. Cebu Island is a typical tropical island with narrow coastlines, limestone plateaus, and coastal plains. Cebuano is the native language spoken by the inhabitants of Cebu, Bohol, eastern part of Negros island, western parts of Leyte and Biliran islands, and southern third of Masbate island. It is also spoken in a few towns and islands in Samar. Cebuano has the most number of native speakers than Tagalog. In Bohol Island, the people are Boholanos and the local language is Bol-anon.

The language spoken throughout the most of Mindanao Island is known as Bisaya. Bisaya language is very similar to Cebuano language and is spoken by many people in Mindanao Island.

There are many beautiful Filipina women, calling themselves as “Cebuanas” living in Cebu. So, how do you court a Filipina Cebuana woman? There are many different ways of course, and Filipina Cebuanas are no different from other Filipina women. They want to be wooed and courted with gifts and loving phrases.

Here are some Filipina dating phrases in the Cebuano language. You can use it to court the Filipina Cebuana woman who lives in Cebu, Philippines!

These Filipina dating phrases are the same phrases you can also use to court Filipina Bisaya women living in most of Mindanao, particularly in Northern Mindanao, Central Mindanao and Southern Mindanao. You can find many beautiful Filipina Bisaya women from Mindanao who are beautiful, educated, and much more old fashioned in their ways than the Filipina Cebuana women who mostly grew up in the city of Cebu.

1) I like you – “Gusto ka nako”

2) I like you very much – “Nakagusto jud ko sa imo”

3) I have a crush on you – “Naka-crush ko sa imo”

4) Take care – “Pag-amping”

5) You take care – “Mag-amping ka ha”

6) I think about you – “Nag-hunahuna ko sa imo”

7) I think about you all the time – “Pirme ko gahunahuna sa imo”

8) I dream about you – “Nagdamgo ko sa imo”

9) I miss you – “Miss nako ka”

10) I miss you very much – “Miss na miss jud nako ka”

11) I am in love you – “Gihigugma ko ikaw”

12) You are the only one I love – “Ikaw lang ang akong gihigugma”

13) I love you – “Nahigugma ko nimo”

14) I love you very much – “Gugmahan kaayo ko nimo”

15) I want to marry you – “Gusto nako ka pakaslan”

The Cebuano language or Bisaya language can have many other versions and different arrangements of the words used, but the meaning is the same. Each version depends on the situation of the moment the endearment is spoken. Meet Cebuanas from Cebu Island, register in www.FilipinaKisses.com.