A. Hathaway asked:


What to know when considering a Philippine Bride

The Philippines is a poor country and has a reputation for relationship fraud. Of course there are plenty of good, beautiful and honest women seeking marriage with foreigners. There is also an active population of scammers, fraud schemes and old fashioned gold diggers. Some women seek financial gain and lifestyle upgrades, an escape from poverty. Others are actually seeking a loving relationship, marriage and something new and exciting. How to tell this difference is the key question.

If she asks for money, put the brakes on. Beware of family or medical “emergencies” where the woman needs cash and financial support fast. Know that sending money via Western Union is likely lost in the event that she’s a scammer. Understand that the scammers are professional criminals and are very difficult to distinguish between an honest and trustworthy woman.

Educated yourself by reading about scam and fraud methods. Knowing about the different scams will help you recognize any foul play. The schemes and fraud efforts vary in strategy, but all have one thing in common, money. Money is usually requested in the form of advance fee fraud, where the criminal needs help with school, medical, rent, family, visa, etc. You can read more about the fraud types at Wikipedia’s site for relationship fraud and advance fee fraud. This is a major step in prevention.

Once you understand the fraud types and warnings signs, consider a trip to the Philippines. Get to know her and her country. See for yourself who you’re dealing with. This is a key step in not only preventing fraud, but also in establishing a meaningful relationship. Take time to get to know her. A Philippine woman in a hurry to marry is a major red flag.

Lastly, if all checks out, get a professional background check by a firm with a local presence in Manila and Cebu. Wymoo offers confidential investigations and has years of experience dealing with potential brides and relationships in the Philippines.

Best of luck, and do your homework!

A. Hathaway

Tim Zelmer asked:


There was a time, fairly early in its history, when the Internet was an almost purely social place for most of us. Shortly after it became popular, the average person connected through America Online (AOL) or CompuServe and paid by the minute to enter chat rooms and meet new people. Most of us were wary of the people we met online at first – the anonymity offered online brought out the worst in many of people during the early days when the idea of communicating with people via the Internet was new. However, the bad experiences that were had by some were vastly outweighed by the convenience, the uniqueness and the sheer fun offered by those simple chat rooms of the past.

No one – not even the Internet pioneers – could have predicted how fast the Internet would grow, and how much a part of virtually everyone’s daily life it would become. From the humble beginnings of those early chat rooms, the Internet has become a tool that most of us use to do business, stay in touch with family and friends, get news, sports and weather reports, directions and maps, buy and sell things – you name it, the odds are very good that the Internet offers you a way to do it. The amount of information available on the “information hi-way” is staggering – a simple search on Google or Yahoo can net literally millions of matching sites – and if you can buy something in a brick and mortar store, you can more than likely buy it from your PC or laptop.

Interestingly, in some ways the Internet has come full circle in that along with the other things we do online on a day-to-day basis, many people are now finding that dating online – meeting new people to form relationships with – offers them options that the bar scene, blind dates, fix-ups and other traditional ways of forming romantic relationships simply don’t. The recent explosion of online dating and online dating sites has created a situation in which proximity is no longer the deciding factor in who a person can meet. Rather than being confined to a single town or city, Internet dating offers people the option of looking for that perfect someone across the state, the country and even all across the world.

Not only has the online dating industry exploded in recent years but it has become both more user friendly and relationship specific. No matter who you are or what sort of relationship you are looking for, the odds are that there is a site out there that will fit your needs. There are sites that cater to straight dating, the gay/lesbian community, ethnically based dating (white, black, Asian, etc), bi-sexual and *********** relationships, dating based on religion, political views, ages (under 30 or over 50, etc) and pretty much any and all combinations of the previously mentioned groups. There are sites that will try and find the perfect match for you, and sites that will simply offer thousands (and in some cases tens of thousands) of user profiles and pictures for you to search through. Some sites offer only simple email introductions while other sites will offer instant messaging, private chat rooms, streaming audio, and live video capabilities all administered through the site. It only takes the investment of an hour or two of your time to find an online dating service which caters to your specific needs and desires.

While online dating certainly isn’t going to appeal to everyone, there can be no doubt that the industry’s rapid growth and expansion indicates that more and more men and women are finding it to be not only a viable but a preferable alternative to traditional forms of dating. As a matter of fact, an increasing number of men and women are finding that there are many advantages to looking for romantic companionship online. Some of these advantages include:

* Safety – There is no doubt about it, the world in general and the dating world in particular can be a dangerous place for both men and women. While a person may look or seem to be okay, it takes a considerable amount of time to really get to know anyone. Many people find that getting to know another person online – where they have control over both how much personal information they give about themselves and how much information they ask of another person – alleviates most of their safety concerns. No reputable online dating site will give out your personal information (last name, address, phone number or even email address) without your permission. It is up to the user(s) how fast or how slow a relationship progresses and, should one person have suspicions or fears about their online dating partner, ending the relationship is as simple as clicking out of the chat box or instant message.

* Convenience – For most of us, traditional dating is WORK. Whether male or female, it takes a considerable amount of time to get that look you want perfect, pick out the right wardrobe, find the right place to go, etc. The truth is, in today’s hectic world, a lot of people simply don’t have the time to do everything that they need to do to get ready for a date on a regular basis. Online dating, however, is as simple as switching on a computer and logging into your dating site. Even if you use a site that offers webcam functions, you control whether you turn the cam on, and even if it shows anything other than your smile. The impression you make on the people you are interested in can be made in ripped jeans and an old tee shirt – you don’t even need to comb your hair.

* Variety – One of the most common complaints that people in the dating scene have is that they always seem to meet the same kind of people. A lot of this is, of course, due to the fact that in many cases people from the same towns or cities tend to share many of the same personality traits. This is not the case in the online dating world. You can just as easily strike up a conversation with a girl in Kiev or a guy in Manila as you can with your next door neighbor, and this offers a wide variety of people that simply isn’t available with any other form of dating.

* Cost – Love may be blind, but finding it by traditional dating methods certainly isn’t cheap. A first date with someone you may not even know or actually be compatible with can easily run $200 or more, and there is never a guarantee that you will even enjoy yourself or want to see that person again. While virtually all online dating sites charge fees for their services, in many cases the cost of that first traditional, three hour date will buy you weeks – and even months – of online dating with a variety of people who catch your attention. And again, if you find that someone simply isn’t what you are looking for, you can simply say goodbye and try someone else … without having to pay for a cab to take them home!

As I said before, online dating isn’t for everyone – and not every approach to online dating offered by specific sites will be right for everyone. But with the almost unlimited options available and the wide variety of choices that can be explored from the comfort of one’s own home, online dating is something that should at least be looked into by anyone who is in search of that perfect someone. The one you’ve been looking for could be as near as the next chat room!

Timothy Spencer asked:


Boy and girl gets into an initially quiet fight, speaking in low tones, still not believing and a bit annoyed that they’re talking about what they’re talking about. Eventually, voices rise, hearts beat faster, and whatever disbelief and slight annoyance that these two lovers have about this little fight turns into bitterness, pain, and frustration. Eventually, one of them says the unspeakable words, the other hears it, and one walks out the door. It’s over.

A sleepless night follows when the girl and the boy couldn’t sleep, regretting the deed. Eventually, the girl hears a knock on the door. She doesn’t want to get up but she does. As she slowly twists the doorknob, the door reveals a contrite boy offering the reddest roses that he could find, and they embrace…

Cheesy right? You must have watched this scene in countless films and television shows since you could remember. You might have even experienced this yourself at some point in your life! The reason for the big fight, the faces, age, location, a million other details—they are different for every person, fictional or not, but the giving of flowers to say sorry and “I Love You” is always there. The thing is, the flowers are there for a reason and a good one at that.

There are times when a relationship can get very difficult for two people. There are various reasons for two lovers to want to end their relationship, reasons both simple and complex. Mistakes once made, while forgiven, are rarely forgotten. However, while there are infinite reasons to want to say goodbye, it only takes one reason to stay; as cliché as it may sound, this one reason is love. Some couples want to save their relationship for whatever its worth to them or to the world because they sincerely love each other. To emphasize the point, they give red roses to show just how much they care.

Where words fail, roses save the day. Red roses symbolize love—not petty love, but deep, passionate love. Giving roses is a practice that has survived centuries of changes in custom and tradition because of this immortal symbolism. After all, whenever a woman receives red roses, she feels special and loved. Giving those red roses can be the first step to save your relationship with the woman you love.

However, bear in mind that giving roses alone is NOT the only thing you have to do in order to save your relationship. You need to build the trust that you have lost, make the changes you need to make about yourself, and pour in effort into not making similar mistakes that you have made in the past.

Just remember: start anew with red roses.

A. Hathaway asked:


Where to go when you need Answers

The Philippines has been, and continues to be, a major exporter of brides. What drives this exportation of women is not exactly known, but clearly the corruption, poverty and limited amount of opportunity in the Philippines is a factor. The supply and demand continue to be strong, with the women choosing men in Western Europe, the United States, Australia and Canada. With this international match making, has come some problems.

International marriages and relationships begun on the Internet have contributed to a sharp rise in fraud cases and relationship scams. In addition to the unknown factor of getting to know a Filipina on the Internet, the fact is that the Philippine culture is one where many things are for sale, including love. That is to say in a poor country like the Philippines, opportunity and money talks. The problem for the Western men in the United States, Canada and Western Europe is how to know if it’s love or money talking. To be sure, in most cases, it pays to hire a PI.

Whether you’re looking for a background check to confirm her story, or if you suspect infidelity and require surveillance for clear evidence, we recommend hiring a reputable firm like Wymoo International. Wymoo and its subsidiary, Philippine PI, have offices in Manila and Cebu with years of experience assisting clients in uncovering the truth. You can view their commercial at: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AkopyZK3P1o. Depending on your specific needs, you might need surveillance on the subject or a comprehensive background check to verify claims of education, employment, marital status, address, etc.

Surveillance and professional investigations can be somewhat costly. However, not knowing the truth about a relationship in the Philippines can be even more expensive. Find out the truth by contacting a professional. In the Philippines, a land of fraud and scams, one cannot afford to simply hope for the best.

Best of luck,

A. Hathaway Copyright

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Tim Zelmer asked:


There was a time, fairly early in its history, when the Internet was an almost purely social place for most of us. Shortly after it became popular, the average person connected through America Online (AOL) or CompuServe and paid by the minute to enter chat rooms and meet new people.  Most of us were wary of the people we met online at first – the anonymity offered online brought out the worst in many of people during the early days when the idea of communicating with people via the Internet was new. However, the bad experiences that were had by some were vastly outweighed by the convenience, the uniqueness and the sheer fun offered by those simple chat rooms of the past.

No one – not even the Internet pioneers – could have predicted how fast the Internet would grow, and how much a part of virtually everyone’s daily life it would become. From the humble beginnings of those early chat rooms, the Internet has become a tool that most of us use to do business, stay in touch with family and friends, get news, sports and weather reports, directions and maps, buy and sell things – you name it, the odds are very good that the Internet offers you a way to do it. The amount of information available on the “information highway” is staggering – a simple search on Google or Yahoo can net literally millions of matching sites – and if you can buy something in a brick and mortar store, you can more than likely buy it from your PC or laptop.

Interestingly, in some ways the Internet has come full circle in that along with the other things we do online on a day-to-day basis, many people are now finding that dating online – meeting new people to form relationships with – offers them options that the bar scene, blind dates, fix-ups and other traditional ways of forming romantic relationships simply don’t. The recent explosion of online dating and online dating sites has created a situation in which proximity is no longer the deciding factor in who a person can meet. Rather than being confined to a single town or city, Internet dating offers people the option of looking for that perfect someone across the state, the country and even all across the world.

Not only has the online dating industry exploded in recent years but it has become both more user friendly and relationship specific. No matter who you are or what sort of relationship you are looking for, the odds are that there is a site out there that will fit your needs. There are sites that cater to straight dating, the gay/lesbian community, ethnically based dating (white, black, Asian, etc), bi-sexual and *********** relationships, dating based on religion, political views, ages (under 30 or over 50, etc) and pretty much any and all combinations of the previously mentioned groups. There are sites that will try and find the perfect match for you, and sites that will simply offer thousands (and in some cases tens of thousands) of user profiles and pictures for you to search through. Some sites offer only simple email introductions while other sites will offer instant messaging, private chat rooms, streaming audio, and live video capabilities all administered through the site. It only takes the investment of an hour or two of your time to find an online dating service which caters to your specific needs and desires.

While online dating certainly isn’t going to appeal to everyone, there can be no doubt that the industry’s rapid growth and expansion indicates that more and more men and women are finding it to be not only a viable but a preferable alternative to traditional forms of dating.  As a matter of fact, an increasing number of men and women are finding that there are many advantages to looking for romantic companionship online. Some of these advantages include:

* Safety – There is no doubt about it, the world in general and the dating world in particular can be a dangerous place for both men and women. While a person may look or seem to be okay, it takes a considerable amount of time to really get to know anyone. Many people find that getting to know another person online – where they have control over both how much personal information they give about themselves and how much information they ask of another person – alleviates most of their safety concerns. No reputable online dating site will give out your personal information (last name, address, phone number or even email address) without your permission. It is up to the user(s) how fast or how slow a relationship progresses and, should one person have suspicions or fears about their online dating partner, ending the relationship is as simple as clicking out of the chat box or instant message.

* Convenience – For most of us, traditional dating is WORK. Whether male or female, it takes a considerable amount of time to get that look you want perfect, pick out the right wardrobe, find the right place to go, etc. The truth is, in today’s hectic world, a lot of people simply don’t have the time to do everything that they need to do to get ready for a date on a regular basis. Online dating, however, is as simple as switching on a computer and logging into your dating site. Even if you use a site that offers webcam functions, you control whether you turn the cam on, and even if it shows anything other than your smile. The impression you make on the people you are interested in can be made in ripped jeans and an old tee shirt – you don’t even need to comb your hair.

* Variety – One of the most common complaints that people in the dating scene have is that they always seem to meet the same kind of people. A lot of this is, of course, due to the fact that in many cases people from the same towns or cities tend to share many of the same personality traits. This is not the case in the online dating world. You can just as easily strike up a conversation with a girl in Kiev or a guy in Manila as you can with your next door neighbor, and this offers a wide variety of people that simply isn’t available with any other form of dating.

* Cost – Love may be blind, but finding it by traditional dating methods certainly isn’t cheap. A first date with someone you may not even know or actually be compatible with can easily run $200 or more, and there is never a guarantee that you will even enjoy yourself or want to see that person again. While virtually all online dating sites charge fees for their services, in many cases the cost of that first traditional, three hour date will buy you weeks – and even months – of online dating with a variety of people who catch your attention. And again, if you find that someone simply isn’t what you are looking for, you can simply say goodbye and try someone else … without having to pay for a cab to take them home!

As I said before, online dating isn’t for everyone – and not every approach to online dating offered by specific sites will be right for everyone. But with the almost unlimited options available and the wide variety of choices that can be explored from the comfort of one’s own home, online dating is something that should at least be looked into by anyone who is in search of that perfect someone. The one you’ve been looking for could be as near as the next chat room!

Filipina Kisses asked:


The Filipino lady is often times conservative about how she conducts herself, particularly in public. A Filipino woman is usually prim and proper in her actions. This is because the Philippines is a country with many old fashioned ways.

Filipino girls always respect her elders. Most Filipino girls live with her parents and elders as long as she is still unmarried no matter how old she is. Filipino women have close family relationships. She have strong bonds with extended family members like her aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews, grandparents, and even neighbors!

Filipino girls have strong religious beliefs. Many Filipino women are Catholic or Christian in faith, and they usually regularly go to church every Sunday with family members or friends. It will mean a lot to her if you can go to church with her too. However, she is also open minded and is willing to accept your religion and your faith if someday she will become your wife. Filipino women are brought up to respect her husband and always support him and be there for him.

Filipino ladies take her relationships seriously. Being in a relationship is a serious matter with Filipino girls. They see a relationship as a step towards marriage, so that is why she must consider a man very well before choosing him as a boyfriend. That is why many Filipino ladies are expected to be playing hard to get. It is also one way by which the Filipino woman can measure the sincerity of her man. She will also take a man seriously if only he is really willing to visit her family and introduce himself formally to her parents.

It is considered disrespectful if a man courts a Filipino lady without informing her parents! In the Philippines, you should know that it is always expected that the man must show his face to the Filipino girl’s family or else her whole family will not approve of you!

Love and romance is really a very serious matter with conservative Filipino ladies, whether they are from a city like Manila or Cebu or from far flung provincial areas.

Join Filipinakisses.com and meet the Filipino lady of your dreams!

Tammy Johnston asked:

Philippines dating the service will provide the manner of helping the American men to meet the Philippines brides on line. There is no necessary performance of service because all is free. The Web sites of dating of Manila want just to connect ladies of Philippines to the types of the United States for the relationship and the marriage. You can create free personnel dating the profile, the search for singles, and acts one on the other with them without payment. As you know it, Filipino dating the service was famous who help of the thousands of married of Filipino with the Western men. Or you are an unmarried woman of Philippines or a man, you can find your companion of heart on line at any cost. To be unmarried will return to you sad and only, should find to you thousands of married and men of Philippines on line. Find your other half today without paying any cost.

The Filipino women in Manila will accept older husbands because they want to come to America to live. They want to have a good future for them and their children. They want to be likely better to work and live that in Manila. There are thousands of women of Philippines who come to the United States each year. They marry with one or the other American men or Filipino natives of the United States. You can see the difference between the husband and the wife. The wife is too young and enough. The husband is about between two double ages. At all events, they seem large unit and particularly they like deeply. Thus, the marriage with women or girls of Manila must be of free Philippines dating from the sites. The research of the love of Internet was common and simple in last years.

Philippines singles and the personnel was on line easily and conveniently. The primary reason that the single girls of Filipino like to live in the USA east them have a better future for them and their children later. On the one hand, the American men who are interested by young wives from Philippines will come to Manila to marry with these girls. The men of some United States are older than their brides approximately during 20 years. This is called the older men and the younger women. We saw these stories in films and the books. The principal difference is that the films and the books of stories do not have a happy end. The real stories between older American men with moreover young women of Philippines have a happy end. They like very, much.

In last years, there are thousands of married of Philippines who come to America by the marriage with the American single men. The way in which a Filipino bride and an American man know themselves is by the Filipino sites of dating on line. The research of the love and the romance on the Internet was popular nowadays. The American types want to marry with the women Filipino, they must be recorded with the Filipino sites in line of dating. The same rule applies to Philippines of the girls. When an unmarried woman of Philippines wants to marry with a man in the United States, it must join these services. The men and the women can seek by the site of dating to come into contact with any of them which they like the majority.

Filipina Kisses asked:


The Philippine woman is often times conservative about how she conducts herself, particularly in public. A Philippine lady is usually prim and proper in her actions. This is because the Philippines is a country with many old fashioned ways.

Philippine ladies take their relationships seriously. Being in a relationship is a serious matter with Filipino girls . They see a relationship as a step towards marriage, so that is why she must consider a man very well before choosing him as a boyfriend. That is why many Philippine ladies are expected to be playing hard to get. It is also one way by which the Filipina woman can measure the sincerity of her man.

A Filipina girl will only take a man seriously if he is really willing to visit her family and introduce himself formally to her parents. It is considered disrespectful if a man courts a Filipina woman without informing her parents! In the Philippines, you should know that it is always expected that the man must show his face to the Filipina girl’s family or else her whole family will not approve of you!

Philippine ladies have strong religious beliefs. Many Philippine women are Catholic or Christian in faith, and they usually regularly go to church every Sunday with family members or friends. It will mean a lot to her if you can go to church with her too. However, she is also open minded and is willing to accept your religion and your faith if someday she will become your wife. Filipina Ladies are brought up to respect her husband and always support him and be there for him.